Just as everyday 'speaking' is not the same as public speaking; 'listening' is not the same as active listening. Active listening means two things: analysis and response to the message being communicated.

Listening is such an important social skill for everyone, children and adults alike. Giving our children a head start with listening skills will help them in so many ways ? and also make our own lives as parents easier in the long run. It can be frustrating and result in stress on both sides if a small child seems to ignore you when you need him or her to pay attention and listen to you. Improving child listening skills can be done in so many ways; here are some fun ideas for building listening skills during a normal family day.

Purposed listening eliminates second guessing and much misunderstanding. But again - you have to want to understand. With understanding you can move mountains. Without it, you're missing the mark, and not really listening.

A vital skill in becoming an effective communicator is the ability to listen. Listening skills are not taught in school, and sadly are largely undeveloped skill in many people. To listen effectively is a powerful skill that can be learnt and practiced. You will gain more respect and esteem through listening rather than through talking.